1/26/20 Life Overtakes Me - As refugees flee their home countries and the familiar surroundings and resettle (or try to) in new countries, there is all kinds of adjustments that have to be made, new languages to learn, and the fight to stay in the desired country after seeking asylum. This short film was made in Sweden and followed families seeking asylum, but also coping with their children who are suffering from is being called "Resignation Syndrome". It's almost as if the children quit wanting to live; they stop eating, stop responding to their parents or any stimulation. Some of the children have been in this condition for 6-12 months. It's heartbreaking watching the parents massage the children, talk to them and try to include them in family activities and hope for them to wake up. It is possible, and one of the doctors suggests (and the example in the film seems to bear her out) that once the family's situation becomes stable, like asylum is granted, and the parents become more calm and less stressed the children start to come out of the suspended animation state. Cases of Resignation Syndrome have increased in Sweden in the last ten years, and new cases are appearing in Australia among refugees. It made me wonder if children being held or coming to the United States under uncertain conditions are experiencing this syndrome and it's not being reported. Life Overtakes Me is available on Netflix.
1/26/20 Learning to Skateboard in a Warzone (if you're a girl) - So far this is my favorite of the four shorts I have watched. The title says it all, girls in Kabul, Afghanistan are learning to skateboard and they are definitely still in a warzone. This could have been a depressing story, focusing on the war and the poor treatment of women and girls, but I found myself crying tears of happiness and joy at the spirit of the schoolgirls, but also their mothers and their teachers (I often cry watching documentaries). Muslim extremists frown on girls going to school or having any kind of education or freedom, which makes going to school a very dangerous proposition. The girls go to school and then learn to skateboard; skateboarding outdoors is also dangerous, so there is an indoor 'skate park' where they learn all the basics. The teachers are women as are the skateboarding instructors. Listening to all of the women talk about the importance of the school and the skateboarding is so uplifting; mothers talking about how they were prohibited from going to school and were forced to marry when they were very young and they want something better for their daughters. There is a school administrator who inspired me to a few fist pumps as she seemed fearless in the face of men who opposed the school. The skateboard instructor who was once a student who aspired to participate in international competitions. The energy and joy of the girls, the giggling and teasing, but also incredible support they have for one another is awesome and uplifting. I have been recommending it to everyone. It's available online through A&E. The organization that supports this endeavor is Skateistan.org. You will thank me later.
1/30/20 Walk Run Cha-Cha - Paul and Millie Cao met as youngsters in Vietnam, but were separated when Paul left for America to begin a new life. They kept in contact and eventually Paul was able to bring Millie to the United States and they re-connected and married. We meet them while they are in a dance lesson, and I really had no idea what the movie was going to be about, I thought just dancing. Dancing became kind of like their second chapter together as a couple after both had successful careers and their daughter was grown and out of the house. They both take the dancing very seriously, taking private lessons and competing. Paul is the more serious of the two, rarely cracking a smile, and Millie seems to light up when she talks about dancing and listening to Western music when she was growing up. Watching them dance together was very touching. I don't think it was the 'best', but I did enjoy it. This is also online, available through general searching or on Vimeo.
1/30/20 In the Absence broke my heart. In the Absence documents the sinking of the MV Sewol, a South Korean ferry, in April 2014. It also shows in real time video and recorded radio and phone exchanges the sheer incompetence of the South Korean authorities to make any real attempt to rescue the passengers, many of them students, before the ferry sank. It is so hard to describe what happened, because it makes no sense. Government authorities were more concerned about the appearance of making a rescue and filming the scene than actually doing anything productive. A group of civilian divers did their best to recover the victims, but they were also battling the government who eventually ordered them to stop their efforts. Two of the divers were interviewed or testified in a later public forum, and you could see how tortured they were by not being able to complete their task. It was chilling to watch parents, survivors and ordinary Korean citizens marching and protesting against the government. There were several scenes that made tear up, and one of them was when the ferry was recovered, four years after the disaster, and the remaining victims were brought home. The families wanted to get closer, maybe see the bodies (I don't know if that would have been good), but the authorities were keeping them locked out, and the families are shouting about how they have been forced to wait and they were getting aggressive (I didn't blame them), the camera shows members of the police/security forces waiting in the area (waiting for a conflict) and as the families are yelling, one of the officers is shown wiping away tears. It was as if she knew what was happening was wrong and she felt horrible for what was happening. There was no narration to the film, but interviews, recorded exchanges from a variety of officials, news footage and super titles providing time frames to the disaster as well as information about what was happening. It was moving and aggravating and it was hard to find anything positive in the outcome. This documentary is available on YouTube.
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